Let’s cut the chase, There are tons of things that men do, and that women do, that if one or the other would stop doing, the world would be a much better place, and probably with a much lower crime rate; but I digress. If you want to know three things you, as a guy, can do to improve your relationships with the women in your life, then keep reading!
1. Once is enough…
If you’re with a woman and she appears to be more quiet than usual. don’t keep asking her, “are you okay,” or “are you mad,” over and over and over again. By the time you’re done drilling her on whether or not she’s mad or if she’s okay; irregardless to if she was mad before you started asking her, she’s definitely mad at you now for asking her the same question over and over and over again. Ask once or twice at most, and then just drop it. If she really has something to say she will say it eventually.
This means that when you start a new relationship, or if you’re with a woman; remember that it’s 2013 and all the saints left a long time ago. Don’t drill her about old boyfriends, how many men she knows and things of that nature. The men she knew before are just the past. They helped make her into who she is now in some way or another; so don’t let past occurences screw up a good thing.
3. Leave your friends out of it
I’m pretty sure this goes for both men and women, but when it comes to relationships, both romantic or otherwise, don’t let your friends’ opinions influence you too much; take each piece of advice with a grain of salt. Remember, at the end of the day it’s you by yourself; you have to live with each decision you make. Don’t end up regretting not doing something or regret having done something because your friend thought you should. Just be yourself and make you own choices.